The Number of Lovers there were before you

Ladies, You have been happily married for the past ten years, and recently after a few drinks during a carefree conversation where gay sex came up, you find out that your husband had been a male whore
attending to clients of both sexes.  As a matter of fact this is how he paid his way through college and university, would you start doubting his loyalty to you because of his sexual history?  Would you feel jealous of his past and become more curious about it asking him for specific details?  Would you eventually leave him because he does not have the same self discipline like you when it comes to sex? 

"if it was my wife, I would definitely leave her," says Abraham 35,an Accountant at a telecommunications company.  "I could sleep with a woman who had been a prostitute before, but to marry her?  No way, she is not marriage material.  I, like  a lot of men, appreciates the fact that my woman is clean and pure. Ten years?" he continues, "After ten years I find out that you been with two hundred men?  This to me is fraud.  She mislead me, and allowed me to marry her under false pretenses." 

"What are you saying, Abraham?  That her pussy has now become worn out and is no longer functional because two hundred penises had already been inside it?" Emily says, "a pussy is a muscle, it contracts right back into place." 

"It's not the physical aspect of it," claims Abraham, "it is a change of perspective which I now have for the person whom I am suppose to trust and believe in. I won't be able to sleep at night , knowing what I now know."

"Are you saying," Emily was on the brink of anger, "that a woman with less sexual partners is of a better worth than a woman with more sexual partners?"

"Please forgive him Emily," Jonathan Simon, a high school science teacher, says, "I understand this situation well. I had this disease before.  Not really a disease, but a mental condition.  It is called retroactive jealousy disorder.  It is unfair of you to humiliate or ridicule a person who is mentally ill.  Retroactive jealousy disorder is a condition affiliated to mental illness.  Abraham, is protraying symptoms of retroactive jealousy, because he would have been jealous of something that happened in the past and would allow this past to change his attitude and decisions concerning the present. 

What do you think?  do you get judged by your past history?  Do you judge others by their past? Leave a comment below. 

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